Remember That Justice Is Blind – No One Is Immune
It can be tempting to fall into the (incorrect) mindset that your ex and his/her new darling have found Nirvana and are deliriously happy in their new life together. While this may be what they want to project to onlookers, know that, based upon the fact that pain inflicted on others was the foundation used to establish their relationship, it isn’t sustainable in the long haul.
The very same restlessness that drove him/her to discard loved ones like they were yesterday’s garbage will eventually cause him/her to want to run away again when the honeymoon and excitement is over.
The fact is that there will come a day when they will both wake up and see each other, up close and personal, when the pretenses come down. And you know what they say about Karma …. she’s a witch (or something that rhymes with the word witch). No one is immune to “what goes round comes around” … not you … not me … and not even your dear departed Prince or Princess Charming.
So, throw the tissue box away and get on with your life. It’s not going to be long before you’ll get the news that there’s trouble in Paradise. And when that happens,please be the bigger person and don’t gloat. There IS justice in this world and that we ALL are subject to the law of sowing and reaping.
If you’ve done all the work that you needed to do on yourself, you’ll be in a position – unlike him/her – where you still have the ability to feel empathy – even when that empathy is for someone who brought it upon themselves by their own bad choices.